How to Become Zen Master of Social Media

by Paul Kiser

Three States of Being: Taking In, Reflecting, and Giving Out

Today I read two articles that sparked a ‘Zen’ moment for me. It hit me that the ideal for a person who seeks to be Social Media Leader (or Master, if you prefer) is one who balances three different states of being.

Before I go into the three states of being I want to credit the two articles that led me to this enlightenment because I think they are well worth the read. The first article is by Tanveer Naseer titled, The Power of Reflection in Leadership. In the article he discusses the need for leaders to schedule reflection time in her or his day.  I am a regular reader of Mr. Naseer’s blog because he has great insight on a wide variety of topics.

(Link to The Power of Reflection in Leadership)

The second article I came across via LinkedIn and the Social Media Network titled, The Two Essential Steps to Becoming a Thought Leader by Brandon Cox. His points are simple, but the idea of becoming a Thought Leader is an important concept for anyone who wishes to be more than a do-what-your-told drone.

(Link to The Two Essential Steps to Becoming a Thought Leader)

I want to clarify that I don’t see myself as a Zen Master of Social Media, just one who wants to walk the path, but the combination of these two articles gave me a moment of clarity about what is needed for anyone who strives to be more than a user of Social Media.

Because Social Media is a new evolution in individual communication and is constantly transforming it is necessary for a leader in Social Media to research and observe. The Zen Master of Social Media must first be a Seeker of knowledge. As Naseer puts it, he or she must climb the mountain, but the mountain of Social Media has no summit. Like so many hikes I have taken in Colorado, the top of one summit only allows you to see the next summit.

A leader of Social Media must also be a Reflector of Social Media.  Learning about the function of a tool is important, but one must use the tool to truly understand the value of the it. Being a Reflector allows others to observe and learn best practices, and then to innovate new practices from the foundation laid by the ‘master’.

Finally, a leader of Social Media must be a Mentor.  Giving out the knowledge gained from being a Seeker and a Reflector is an essential function of a leader. Teaching helps others to learn, but as any Teacher can tell you, their knowledge of a subject becomes solidified as they organize their thoughts to present the information to their students.

By being equal parts of a Seeker, Reflector, and Mentor the Social Media Leader will find balance and continuous growth as they seek to reach a perfect Zen state….and then they need to shut off his or her computer and go play with their children.

A Zen of a Different Kind

A Post Script: While researching for this blog I came across a new book titled, The Zen of Social Media by Shama Kabani, published by BellaBooks.  I have downloaded it off of  I may add a follow-up blog once I have read her book, but it looks interesting!

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8 responses to “How to Become Zen Master of Social Media

  1. What a great way to simplify the process, or rather lifestyle, of leading. Thanks for plugging my post and I love the way you’ve built thoughts upon it that are so relevant!

  2. Paul, I agree with Brandon. You did a great job pointing out the different facets that make up the role of leadership. Like the way you also drew the links to how to one should approach using social media.

    Thanks as well for mentioning my piece and I’m glad to see it helped to inspire such interesting thoughts.

    • Thank you! I enjoy reading your articles. Yesterday was a good example of the ‘synergy’ (sorry, I really hate that word) of Social Media where thoughts of several people build a foundation that leads to secondary ideas. Thanks!

  3. Thank you so much for downloading the book. I hope you do enjoy it – I’d love your thoughts!

    – Shama

    • You’re welcome! I haven’t had a chance to read it, but I did see that you intended to keep it updated on the web…what a great New World approach!! I’ll start it this weekend.


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  5. Joselo Gloria

    Tks man, as I am tryning to be a specialist in social media for the sole purpose to teach other on how to take advantage of this tools, it helps me a lot to light up my way.

    Tnks again

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